Do You Commit Fully to the Blogging Process?

by Ryan Biddulph | Blogging | 0 comments

This is a guest post by Ryan Biddulph. He shares smart blogging tips at Blogging From Paradise.

Blogging failure indicates a lack of commitment to the blogging process.

Failing bloggers usually harbor deluded expectations.

Do you want to become wildly successful after 6 months of blogging? Save the rarest of cases, no one achieves staggering blogging success in a 6 month time frame. Observe professionals in various niches. Professional athletes, famous singers and captains of industry require years or even decades to hone their skills to master levels.

Thank goodness, becoming a professional blogger does not require decades of blogging effort. But going pro demands you blog for 1000’s of hours spanning years to lay the foundation for a prospering blogging career.

Think about after you go pro.

Does your workload vanish into the ethers? Of course not; pro bloggers sometimes work as much as during their amateur blogging days. I routinely blog for 6-8 hours daily. I have not missed a blogging work day for the past 5 years. Top pros taught me becoming a thriving pro required a full commitment to the blogging process of:

• creating
• connecting
• monetizing

for a sustained period of time.

I observed professional bloggers who attracted immense blogging success after generously, patiently and persistently creating and connecting for 10 years. Toss in monetizing for the professional blogger triple play. Contrast these seasoned pros who keep at it for 10 years with frustrated, impatient amateurs who give up on blogging after 6 months or 1 year.

Why do you expect to go pro after 1 year if seasoned pros spend 10 years to become niche leaders? Most pros blog as amateurs for at least 3-4 years before becoming professionals. No blogger has access to short cuts, hacks or other lies presented by less than honest, unscrupulous, manipulative bloggers intending to use your greed and desperation against you.

Being fully committed to blogging means doing simple things frequently for a long time. Picture the blogger writing and publishing simple posts solving reader problems, connecting with bloggers and readers, and monetizing their blogs generously over a decade long time frame. Few bloggers commit fully to blogging for 10 years because most bloggers refuse to commit to blogging for 10 months.

How can you go pro if you try to skip the years of blogging:

• practice
• skills
• experience

you need to gain to become a professional blogger?

Cori invited me to guest post on her rocking blog because I committed completely to blogging for years. I wrote daily for a long time. I gained confidence and clarity in my writing voice. I also networked genuinely for years. Creating and connecting through my commitment to blogging developed my skills, exposure and credibility to the point where a respected blogger like Cori invited me to guest post on her blog. I offered to write a guest post for my blogging buddies. She graciously accepted my offer.

The process appeared to consume only a few minutes of my time between my offer and Cori’s acceptance but in truth, I spent 10,000 to 15,000 hours blogging up until the point I made the offer Cori accepted. Does that sound like a hack to you? Did it sound like I took a short cut to reach this point?

I have observed top professional bloggers explain how they would have blogged for free for their 15 year careers due to their love of blogging. You better love blogging this much if you ever dream of committing to this gig for 5, 10, 15 years or longer.

Be all in.

Blog mainly for the fun of blogging.

Being fully committed to blogging allows blogging to fully commit to you.

Stop Holding Yourself to Super Hero Blogging Standards

by Ryan Biddulph | Blogging | 3 comments

This is a guest post by Ryan Biddulph. He shares smart blogging tips at Blogging From Paradise.

I read an excellent post by Jan Verhoeff a few moments ago: Sporadic Bloggers Need Love Too

I did a few things after reading the post. I slowed down. I commented on the blog post. I generated the idea for writing this guest post. Most importantly, I want you to understand that holding yourself to super hero blogging standards always leads to disappointment because humans are not super heroes. Jan stressed how bloggers become sporadic bloggers sometimes. We are all human beings who blog sporadically because humans are not super heroes.

Humans do amazing things. But the only humans who do super hero things are enlightened beings. Unless you and I give up a worldly life to meditate for 40,000 hours we both never develop God-like, super hero powers like Jesus Christ or The Buddha.

That is OK.

Humans at peace with being human become powerful, influential, helpful pro bloggers who change their corner of the Universe.

I personally own no qualities in the prior line. I see myself as a humble servant. But some bloggers believe I am a blogging super hero because I publish content at a decent clip. I am not a blogging super hero. I am not bullet proof. I inhabit a human body for a bit. One day, I will exit the human body as we all do.

After waking at 4 AM with insomnia, my neck felt painfully stiff, my mind raced incessantly and general agitation coursed through my being.

Does that sound like a super hero? No. But I wrote and published a blog post because I do not hold myself to super hero standards. I am at peace with being human. I feel clear on being less than perfect. I feel confident about blogging in less than perfect conditions. I write and publish posts even if I feel bad, tired, agitated or run down.

Since I do not hold myself to super hero standards, I sleep for 8-10 hours daily. Or I lay in bed for 8-10 hours daily if sleep does not greet me for the full 8-10 hours. I am realistic. I have few expectations. I simply focus on the process. I do not try to blog solo. I network generously and genuinely. Even though I share personal stories I intend not to put the attention and energy on myself. I blog predominantly to focus on you. I intend to help you.

Not clinging to super hero expectations instantly dissolves concepts like disappointment, frustration or even heavy self-judgment.

You are a human. Sleep for 8 hours each night or else pay the price of living in a fatigued, exhausted human body. Super heroes do not need sleep. Human beings need sleep. Bloggers who do not get sufficient sleep lose their creativity, dissolve their imagination, rarely publish content and seem imprisoned by mental blocks. I will go back to bed at 6:30 AM after writing this post because I am no super hero. I am a human being who functions horribly on 5 hours of sleep.

Stop holding yourself to ridiculous standards.

Virtually every single blogger holding themselves to super hero standards does so to escape a miserable life of fear, pain and suffering versus moving toward a life of love, fun and yes, some discomfort, too. Face fear, feel discomfort and accept your humanity. Blogging becomes easier if you accept yourself and your humanity because you remove layers of delusional resistance propped up by your insane super hero aspirations.

One reason why I am appear to be a blogging cyborg to some – based on my creating and connecting – is specifically because I take great care of my human body and human mind. I spend 4 hours daily managing my energy through meditating, doing yoga and exercising. I sleep or rest for 8-10 hours daily.

Become a successful blogger by embracing your humanity.

Sprint past deluded bloggers who fail and quit based on their super hero ambitions.

How Offline Time Aids Your Blogging Campaign

by Ryan Biddulph | Blogging | 1 comment

This is a guest post by Ryan Biddulph. He shares smart blogging tips at Blogging From Paradise.

Being offline is as important as being online.

Does this idea confuse you?

Think it through.

Spending hours offline daily increases your creativity, establishes a sense of trust about your blog and energizes you for your work. Being offline lets you enjoy the freedom of living the internet lifestyle. Visit the store at off peak hours. Take your kids to school. Eat lunch with your husband or wife. Sleep in. Go to bed early. Capitalize on running a thriving blogging business. Soak up the passive element.

But bloggers fear being offline because humans generally do not believe in the power of their work. Do you micro-manage? Do you need to handle every aspect of your blogging campaign? Do you stay up late and wake early to get your blogging work done daily? Be generous. Be diligent. Be persistent. But avoid overworking and the inevitable burnout following your obsession with being online.

Check out these reasons why being offline aids your blogging campaign.

Increase Your Creativity

Increase your creativity. Fill your mind with ideas. Spend hours offline daily to detach from blogging. Allow in blog post topics to explore and expound upon. Blogging gets easy for bloggers who spend ample time offline because creative types spend ample time in quiet. Prolific bloggers pluck ideas from the ethers at will in silence.

Turn off your phone. Shut off the internet on your laptop. Sit in a quiet room. Relax. Play around with ideas. Being online blogging tends to create increased tension as online time grows. Mind-ego busies itself with gaining friends, traffic, profits and business. Being offline shifts attention-energy from gaining to giving.

Writer’s block cripples bloggers hellbent on being online. Tension arises in your being if you rarely shut down your phone and turn off the internet on your computer. Exit the online world. Enter the offline world. Dissolve blocks to creativity. Become prolific.

Develop a Deep Sense of Trust

Spend time offline to deeply trust in yourself and your blog. Trust in the quality of your blogging work. Trust your blogging skills. Allow your blog posts and guest posts to gain steam through merit.

Bloggers rarely believe deeply in their work. Lack of belief manifests as feeling the need to promote your content aggressively across a wide range of channels. Relax. Allow your blog content to promote itself – save light social media sharing – by spending more time offline. Readers promote good content for you. Add a passive element to your blogging campaign. Let your content be seen through its effectiveness, value and power. Enjoy life offline. Succeed online. Free yourself.

Stabilize Your Energy

Stabilize your energy. Take off time from blogging. Rest. Recharge. Meditate. Do yoga. Enjoy life with your family.

Blogging is a long term commitment spanning years of your life. Going pro requires 1000’s upon 1000’s of hours spent working online. Spend time offline to energize yourself for time spent online.

Set up blogging hours daily. Establish equally important offline hours. Make offline time as important as online time. Beware staying up late to blog if you should be sleeping or unwinding before bed. Block your blog and social media sites if necessary to ensure you remain offline during scheduled rest periods.

Being offline is as important as being online.

Allow this idea to sear onto your mind to accelerate your blogging success.

Where Do You Get Your Blogging Knowledge?

by Ryan Biddulph | Blogging | 1 comment

This is a guest post by Ryan Biddulph. He shares smart blogging tips at Blogging From Paradise.

I recall 12 years ago vividly.

Someone told me to buy something called a “domain and hosting” in 2008 during my newbie blogger days. I had no idea what a blog was, nor did I know why I should blog. My mentor – I use the term loosely – told me to begin blogging. I began blogging. But I never asked anyone how to blog. I had zero blogging knowledge.

After winging it for a long time I struggled horribly. Turns out, writing and publishing content based on whatever comes to mind did not work too well for me.

I eventually mined blogging knowledge from seasoned professional bloggers. Pros know how to succeed. I learned from bloggers who knew how to succeed.

But I had to discern. Some pros offered advice resonant with my values. Other pros deviated from my ethical standards. I have erred horribly during my 12 year blogging career but I always intended to be:

• honest
• genuine
• ethical
• moral
• compassionate

in all I did online. Sifting through low energy advice from less than ethical pros allowed me to build my campaign based on compassionate, generous, genuine building blocks laid out by honest, heart-centered, professional bloggers.

How About You?

Who do you look to for blogging advice? Why do you look to these people?

Donna Merrill made an excellent point here:

Best Bloggers to Follow in 2021

She noted how the most successful bloggers are not necessarily the best bloggers to follow.

Some top pros do a poor job explaining how to succeed. A few top pros advise you to invest large amounts of money to go pro but most new bloggers do not possess a big blogging budget. Other top pros use less than ethical, borderline illegal tactics to drive blogging profits. But inexperienced newbies follow these pros blindly due to their own delusion, greed and desperation.

A few pros employ competitive tactics like hyped up sales copy, deadline-based marketing and other low energy strategies guaranteed to damage your reputation and erode your credibility.

Be careful about following advice from any established pro blogger who uses fear via manipulative tactics to drive sales. Blogging predominantly from an energy of fear never leads to anything good over the long haul. Beware top pros who want nothing to do with their readers, fans or fellow bloggers. I have met compassionate pros oozing kindness, generosity and knowledge.

I have also met less than genuine pros who did not want me to bother with me. I grew closer to the kind bloggers and released everyone else who came off as arrogant, haughty or high on themselves.

Follow pros who offer advice resonant with the basics of:

• creating helpful content
• building genuine bonds with bloggers through your generosity, detachment and trust
• monetizing through multiple streams of income

Every pro offers a different flavor.

I emphasize guest posting and genuine blog commenting. Other pros may point you in the direction of building a list and SEO-optimizing your posts for Google traffic. Follow your heart. Nice blogging guys and gals with a success consciousness actually finish first.

Soak up knowledge from compassionate pros. Heart-centered pros make your journey easier because you avoid headaches you’d encounter following advice from greedy, arrogant, manipulative pro bloggers.

Follow successful bloggers who place a heavy emphasis on showing you the process of how to succeed. Avoid pros who place a heavy emphasis on successful outcomes but skip some broad strokes in terms of teaching you how to blog successfully.

Never wing it.

Learn from the best bloggers who exude kindness, warmth and abundance.

Let go everyone else.

2 Steps to Publish Blog Posts Prolifically

by Ryan Biddulph | Blogging | 0 comments

This is a guest post by Ryan Biddulph. He shares smart blogging tips at Blogging From Paradise.

Watch.

Write.

I hate to sound simple. But being prolific is that simple.

Unfortunately, most bloggers confuse simple with easy. Bloggers believe watching and writing are easy. Anybody can watch, right? Anybody can write, correct? Why do few bloggers churn out content at a prolific clip, then?

Bloggers tend to do a poor job observing. Most human beings seemed tethered to the past or fixated on the future. No human being effectively observes people, places and things now if anchored to the past or ruminating about the future.

As for writing, I know of few bloggers who write 500-1000 words daily for practice. I advise every blogger to practice writing 500 or more words in a Word document daily to gain confidence in their writing skills. Writing 500 words in a Word document is simple. But writing 500 words in a Word document daily for years is uncomfortable.

I faced fears to write this blog post.

I already wrote and published 6 posts today between blog posts and guest posts. Ego told me I already did enough. Fear told me to get to bed in order to avoid feeling run down. I observed the fear. I felt the fear. I released the fear. I wrote this blog post.

Observe. Write.

Observe

Practice watching the world around you. I tune into reader problems. I also observe my life experiences for an endless flow of blog post ideas. But observing is not easy because the monkey mind jumps to and fro, like a tiny simian hopping around on tree branches. Consider meditating daily to quiet the mind. Quiet minds become completely aware of surroundings.

Stop right now. Take 5 deep breaths. Note every possible detail in your current surroundings. Let nothing go unnoticed. Pay particularly close attention to the thoughts and feelings flowing through your mind now. Following this simple practice for 5 minutes daily strengthens your powers of observation quickly.

Listen closely to your readers. Pore over their comments. Readers bring you an endless flow of blog post ideas if you pay attention to their thoughts, dreams,  problems and hopes.

Write

Write diligently.

Practice writing daily in a Word document to gain clarity. Hone your writing voice through practice.

I have written enough to where I can write a 600 word post in 8-10 minutes if I genuinely want to. I do not write quickly as much as the words flow from my mind, to my fingers, to my laptop to the WordPress back office quite fast. I do not force myself to write quickly. But I practiced writing tens of millions of words since 2008. Doing so for 10,000 to 15,000 hours beefs up your skills in that discipline.

Observing people, places and circumstances to pluck blog post ideas out of thin air is not enough. Skilled, clear, confident writers convert airy ideas into tangible, helpful blog posts.

Never force yourself to write a blog post but publish content even if it feels uncomfortable to do so. Become prolific by edging outside of your content comfort zone.

I easily could have hit the sack a few moments ago. Writing this guest post for Cori and you rocking readers edged me out of my blogging comfort zone. Baby stepping out of comfort allows me to be more comfortable with making uncomfortable writing decisions in the future.

Summary

Being prolific is a simple but sometimes challenging process.

Become a skilled observer. Mine blog post ideas by watching.

Write diligently. Gain confidence and clarity in your writing voice.

Be a prolific blogger.